As of this writing, I have 5 linked Google calendars that include 3 calendars for volunteer groups, 1 Cozi family planner calendar, and 1 Outlook calendar. I didn't start this relationship to get organized, since I've always been a planner. Instead, I'm dragging my partners into the virtually organized world. Learning how to master a … Continue reading Calendars and whiteboards and inventory, oh my!
Category: Beginnings
Surviving Couple Privilege as a Unicorn
The first year of our triad relationship, I mourned the typical milestones I would never experience by saying yes to being with both of my partners. As someone who believed she was (mostly) heterosexual for the majority of her life, I was raised with idealized concepts of dating and marriage to a man, and what … Continue reading Surviving Couple Privilege as a Unicorn
How did we get here?
How did a self-proclaimed 'unicorn' find herself in a romantic relationship trope: a triad with a married male-female couple and their two young children? Quite literally, I met my two partners at a convention, the same weekend I ended a relationship with someone I'd been seeing for a few months. We messaged back and forth … Continue reading How did we get here?



