As of this writing, I have 5 linked Google calendars that include 3 calendars for volunteer groups, 1 Cozi family planner calendar, and 1 Outlook calendar. I didn't start this relationship to get organized, since I've always been a planner. Instead, I'm dragging my partners into the virtually organized world. Learning how to master a … Continue reading Calendars and whiteboards and inventory, oh my!
In any relationship, the decision about moving in together is huge. When you're deciding as a previously single person to live with your two partners and their children the implications are....staggering? terrifying? overwhelming? One of my partners was ready for me to move in after we'd only known each other for three months. In their … Continue reading To Move In, or Not?
The first year of our triad relationship, I mourned the typical milestones I would never experience by saying yes to being with both of my partners. As someone who believed she was (mostly) heterosexual for the majority of her life, I was raised with idealized concepts of dating and marriage to a man, and what … Continue reading Surviving Couple Privilege as a Unicorn
How did a self-proclaimed 'unicorn' find herself in a romantic relationship trope: a triad with a married male-female couple and their two young children? Quite literally, I met my two partners at a convention, the same weekend I ended a relationship with someone I'd been seeing for a few months. We messaged back and forth … Continue reading How did we get here?
Positive Poly Parenting 